My last post was about how a richer more densely layered understanding of our core could help us be more at ease as we interact with the world. This week I am more interested in that external, rather than internal place. If your core is the most proximal place, what constitutes the realm of the most distal? Or in other words, what is within your reach?
Like most things the answer to this question depends on what perspective you take to consider it and with more perspectives come richer understanding and more vibrant experiences.
- For example: can you reach the glasses on the top shelf in the kitchen? This is a purely physical approach that looks at the range of the reach of your arms. Where do your arms begin and where do they end?
- You could also consider what is possible for you to think about: could you imagine reaching those glasses and what would that look like?
- And finally, what belongs in the range of your beliefs. Do you believe that you could attain those glasses or are you doomed to be glassless?
I propose that these three ideas of what is within our reach are interrelated so deeply that they are in practice, impossible to separate.
Don’t take my word for it, consider reaching for glasses in your kitchen. If you are at home: go to the kitchen are reach for the shelf that is most comfortable for you today. It isn’t important that you actually reach the shelf, it is important that you notice the level of ease with which you are reaching and then come back and do the mini lesson below.
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Here is my suggestion for doing this lesson: read through the whole thing and then do the lesson afterwards. If you don’t remember the next step, you can stop to read it and then come back to doing the lesson. Alternatively you can read one direction, do it and then take the resting time in between to read the next section. And remember, whatever isn’t specifically disallowed, is allowed. Have fun!
Sit on a firm chair, preferably without too much cushioning. Notice the contact your pelvis makes with the chair. Can you sense a difference between the two sides? Bring your attention to you r shoulders. What do you notice about your shoulders? What is your sense of the distance between your pelvis on the right side and your right shoulder? How about on your left side? How far is it from your shoulder to your ear? Does one shoulder see closer to your ear than the other? What is between your shoulders and your pelvis? Does your breath change the shape of your torso or lift your shoulders?
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Gently, making the movement as smooth as possible, slide your right shoulder a tiny bit upwards so that the distance between your shoulder and your ear is slightly less. Hold it there for a moment. And then very, very slowly, I mean slooooowly, let your shoulder sink back down. Do this a few times making sure to let your shoulder sink very slowly back down each time.
- As you lift your shoulder do you feel any change in the way your pelvis makes contact with the chair?
- Are you able to continue to breath easily as you lift and lower your shoulder?
- What do you do with your other shoulder? Does it lift as well, stay in place or sink?
- Stop and rest for a moment.
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Now leave your shoulder where it is and slightly tilt your head so that your ear moves towards you shoulder. Make sure to keep your face forward so that you are not turning your head at all. Do this ever so slightly, stopping the moment you begin to feel the need to push.
- Do you feel a change in how your pelvis is supporting you?
- Can you sense any movement in your ribs?
- How easy can you make this movement?
- What is your breathing like as you do this?
- Stop and rest.
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Now easily raise your shoulder and hold it there as you tilt your head to bring your ear towards your raised shoulder. Keeping the distance between your ear and your shoulder exactly the same, begin to bring your head back towards the upright and then back. Remember it only works if you move your head and your shoulder as one package.
- How can you shift in your ribs and your back to make this easier?
- What could you do with your pelvis to help?
- How is your breathing now?
- Stop and rest.
What do you notice about your right shoulder now? How has your contact with the chair changed? Is there a difference between your right and your left sides?
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- How was the lesson?
- Did you actually do it or are you just reading on?
- Go back to that shelf and reach again. What has changed?
- Can you reach higher with greater ease?
- How does reaching without strain to a higher shelf change the thoughts you have about the organization of your kitchen?
How does this new higher, easy reaching distance affect your belief about yourself and your competency in the world?